Read on for a guy’s take on what Seal is probably going through. It may be odd, but it helped me vent out chaotic emotions that I had no idea how to process any other way. I crashed cars and shot anyone who looked at me funny. Yes, psycho dudes do psychotic things, but normal dudes like Seal, who are saddened by the end of a beautiful adult dating relationship, throw their attention to fighting that depressing feeling. Our song was “Crazy in Love” because that was how we were back when we were adult dating. I was madly in love with Janice then.When Seal started to make the rounds in talk SAE flare flanges shows, almost everyone seemed to be surprised at how calm and collected he looked after his split from Heidi Klum.The reason why we think guys are immune to a post-relationship slump? They are really, really good at hiding it. I once had a roommate who, after being dumped by his Leighton Meester look-alike girlfriend, constantly wailed on a punching bag installed in our apartment. And after she broke up with me, I was telling our story to a friend at a bar when I had to grit my teeth and excuse myself. It felt good, only because I knew that no one saw me. He even told talk show host Ellen DeGeneres that he’s keeping his wedding ring on because he likes to feel “connected” with his ex. And then I cried.Holding Back TearsSome guys claim they never cry.Fighting Inanimate ObjectsGuys usually work through the pain of a broken heart by substituting it with a much bearable pain of bloody knuckles.If he was the one who did, he was probably sad for a split second before he started daydreaming about the new girls he’s to go adult dating with.But surely, what he says in public is entirely different from how he feels in private. I have the soft hands of a writer, so I spent the greater part of my recovery from one nasty breakup by living inside the game “Grand Theft Auto IV” for a couple of weeks.. Even if guys play it cool after a break up, that happens to them after the split depends on who broke up with whom. When I got home, I pulled the curtains shut and blasted heavy metal songs. But the truth is we never let anyone see us crying. However, if he was the one run over by the dump truck, his post-split behavior would be far different